It isn't that my pride is more important. It just that if I keep letting her walk on me and say the things she is saying, I am not going to look to attractive to come back to either. My committment is there and will be there for awhile. I also feel we can lose that piece of ourselves somewhere along the line if we don't call it at some point.
I agree hold heartedly that it is mental. There isn't a person(other than her old college friends that are D, Single) that doesn't think she has lost it. The only problem is what will it take for her to find "it" again. Months, Years, Me actually filing for divorce, her being alone and saying what the hell have I done...
I take the vow I made seriously. She doesn't. And will continue to say she is "Done" to me and everyone else around her. So I will continue to take the hurting comments such as the one from saturday: You are always trying to look you best around me, you bought cologone, the shoes that you returned that I bought once...You are a joke." I guess at least she is noticing...
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