That is great advice. I read the books and really it made me more anxious...partly because he told me our marriage is over and the book says that there is nothing you can do to change their mind if they say it is over...Last night we had a really good talk..not about the relatioship just about random things.. Stronger- That is great advice! I love when you come by to reassure me that things will be okay! You are a very strong woman and I admire you and your advice. I am def. in crisis. Yesterday. I was just myself. Maybe if he sees that I am strong and independant he will start to get scared. I dont know. I just hope that this can work. I hope he sees what I have and she does not. I hope that he sees how much he has to lose. I am just very afraid and nervous that they are in love! That is a HUGE obstacle for me to have to hurdle. Any thoughts on that one? Would he still be living with me if it were really over or if they were in love? Even though he took his ring off and sleeps in the basement?
