Thank you for posting to me, no worries in missing my b'day.
My ex has been friends with the guy in Thailand since grad school. That does say a lot! He stuck by him when he M the first time, he didn't like her & tried to talk him out of marrying her but after he met me he told my ex he better hang on to me. Of course he didn't listen, he told me once that he should have listened to him. Now he may wish he had.