Bill, I hope you don't mind if I try to flag Karen43.
Dear Karen43, I wonder if you'd mind looking at my thread. I have been reading your posts to Bill & I would be interested in your opinion of what my H is doing. I was sorry to hear about him raiding your joint accts. Similarly H & I have everything joint financially. My H is trying to get me to do a separation agrmt. If you have time that would be great. Hopefully this link works - if not it's called Scared & Looking for Advice.