What Coach is saying is open up to your W about everything else in your L. Tell her (unprompted) about what is going on at work - frustrations, stories, etc.
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Tell her about your friends, your goals and dreams for the future (no, not about the future of the R, about what you want in the future), etc.
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I also found the opposite to be true. If you don't talk about those things (ie just don't talk) your W will start to fill in the blanks for herself, and the guesses she makes will be neither true nor complimentary toward you.
