I guess where I keep getting stuck is how to pull this off without it being pursuit. What I hear you saying is to open up my emotions to her, which means R talk, which I thought was taboo. Is it that I should tell her how I'm feeling? I don't see how I can have that discussion without it leading to US.
Don't you open up about emotions here with no R talks. The difference here is we are truly detached and it's transparent. What a concept! How you feel is how you feel, if I stepped on your toes would you say something? Plus I would want to know if I did. It's just feedback and I would not take it personally. Relationship talk is about where is this going, past offenses/old wounds, accusations/getting defensive and how the other must change. Talking about your feelings is just you talking about you. Keep the talk off the marriage and you will be alright.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
