Ya know, somthing else I need to get off my chest (which is bigger now since I've been working out). My friend said he and his W were aware my W and I were having problems. My W told me when she dropped the bomb that she had told NO ONE, and then got pi$$ed at me when I confided in one of my closest friends who himself had been through a divorce. Dam%. Uh...dam$.
I'm not upset (maybe mildly peturbed). Just needed to let go of that emotion.