Well she pretty much has gone dark since I have only heard from her twice until this week in the past two months. Not sure how much darker she can be. The only time that I initiated contact in the past two months is when I told her that she needs to let me know when she was going to stop by the house.

Maybe something more along the lines of just acting like her going through with the divorce doesn't bother me. And she is free to do whatever she wants. I don't want to push things along any faster but I don't want to give her the sense that she is in control over my me either. #2 is more along the lines of what Gucci posted to BJ.

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33