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Doesn't matter to the new GIMA. No change in the game plan either way. You dictate the play-calling for you .


Right. I only brought it up as a possible good sign, if my W, so dead set on D (and may still be for all I know) were to counsel another WAW away from D. Just curiosity, but I wonder what in the world my W will tell his. Not meant as a criticism, but my W is probably the last person who should be giving out M advice. Could just be a support session.

Also, this W is one of the people I assumed my W had spoken to for support in D'ing me in the initial phases.

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aren't you pulling away a little out of frustration?


Yep. You got it again. I have. Not intentionally, just have.

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How did the date on Sat go?


OK. No time for lunch (S had football practice) or a quick dessert after (show went late and babysitter had another gig). It was nice, but like two friends going to a show, not a married couple.

Coach, I really don't see this development as a bad thing for me. I see it as a chance for me to help out a friend who is going through a pretty dark place you, I and many others here have gone through.

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She didn't let you know about her breakfast plans because you are not letting her in all your rooms. That is the connection with her man she needs. So open up more


I guess where I keep getting stuck is how to pull this off without it being pursuit. What I hear you saying is to open up my emotions to her, which means R talk, which I thought was taboo. Is it that I should tell her how I'm feeling? I don't see how I can have that discussion without it leading to US.


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