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What WILL be interesting is if his W reports back to him if my W tries to talk her out of D. I doubt that will get back to me, but it would be very interesting.


Doesn't matter to the new GIMA. No change in the game plan either way. You dictate the play-calling for you .

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So, here is where it touches on my sitch. Apparently, his W and my W had breakfast this morning (they have been friends for a few years, having served on a PTA together). Of course, I didn't know about it. Not sure how to feel about that. I SERIOUSLY doubt she is going to tell me anything about this. I will obviously not bring it up. Just seems a little dishonest.



Here is a way to head this off in the future and to help your wife open up. I might have told you this before but here is where it will help. The house analogy - your wife wants to be in all the rooms of you house - career, hobbies, goals, friends, interests, finances etc. Before she lets you in the room you want to go into (bedroom, what is she thinking etc.) She didn't let you know about her breakfast plans because you are not letting her in all your rooms. That is the connection with her man she needs. So open up more, aren't you pulling away a little out of frustration? I think of stories that happen from my day to share. To get her interested be interesting.

How did the date on Sat go?


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.