Thanks Stronger. I appreciate the reassurance. I am backing off even more.
Not sure about the breaking up thing though. It is hard for me to tell if she meant that because she wants to or because I'm pressuring her into it. The former would be good, the latter not so much.
It would bother me so much less if I knew she were dating him for reasons other than caring about him Am I wrong for feeling that way?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09