Thanks. He's actually said ily several times since this started (said it Sat, but not since - I think there is still some confusion there ) and he's never actually said lets work on it. But I guess agreeing to the fresh start is that same thing.

It was so cathartic to finally talk on Thursday night (some [censored] hit the fan and that prompted it) and have my questions answered. the apology helped. He promised the she was out of our life forever. In a weird way, afterward we both felt better.

I will now STFU. smile


Me 34
H 37
Kids 7 & 4
Married 12yrs, together 17
Kiss/EA lasted 2 weeks.
NC since 8/7