Boy, sometimes you can just be going along with your life and your work, and a HUGE wave of sadness just hits you and you want to just cry and cry. I thought I was moving forward, guess I am, but this healing stuff really stinks. I'm trying to concentrate on my work, but it's so tough. Haven't heard from h since Thursday morning when he left on his motorcycle vacation. Just hope we get a chance to try and work things out. I am following everyone's advice and not contacting him although I want to...so badly. Need to focus on myself...

Me 47
H 42
Married 20 years
no kids


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B