BigJohn, Are you prepared to deliver the monolouge that Gucci spelled out? This approach really works to get a WAS to feel the consequences of their behavior. It is a very real and loving boundary for all involved. Try to imagine this situation happening in reverse and how this approach would work. You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.