Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[BigJohn]

That was not in the master plan of the 'original WAS', and now, they're out of the driver's seat. Xw thought she ahd this whole thing planned out. And now, well, the plan is corrupt and XW doens't know what to do or where to go, the proverbial 'saftery net' is officially gone.

dday,

In my case, my W doesn't appear to really have "a plan" beyond getting out of her M with me other than to continue her A with OM. She has done no due diligence whatsoever about anything. She recently started grasping the concept of what 50% joint custody means for us and the kids and is really unhappy about it. I told her the rude surprises will continue to come, however she remains unconvinced that it is worth the "risk" and effort to work on our MR.

I don't recall your sitch- did your W have OM?

That said, you can not and should not be there to 'catch' your W. It's a fall she needs to take on her own.

Agreed. I have a habit of being protective of my W which has bit me on the a$$ on more than one occasion in my sitch.

EDIT- And I seriously stress you explore anyway, be it a temp custody order or not to secure your home. Her claims she is making right now that she NEEDS that house to care for the kids will get you booted once it hits court! I'm not joking.

I'll talk to my attorney about it.

Thanks for the feedback.