My children will always come first no matter what! I wasn't worried about my H's reaction it was just that at the time I couldn't take anyone yelling at me, for God's sake I almost lost one of my chilren. That is what I meant.
Kevin,
My son is doing ok right now. He also I believe in a depression and the H leaving topped it off. S got so angry lately and I didn't see it coming. I finally talked him into going to C and his appt. was going to be the following morning. He was and is still just plain depressed about life and mentioned about the H not contacting him since he left and that it hurt big time since H is the one that raised him.
Our D is hanging in there, and it is very stressful this whole mess! I'm worried 24/7 about my S now more than ever! He was released from the hospital on Friday because our insurance ran out. I also believe he was getting in with the wrong crowd. He is 18 but is mentally challenged and is at a 10yr. old mentallity. So this is a very hard struggle for him, to go through a father not being in his life. He did mention when H left to our D not to worry, this is the second dad that left him. My heart aches for him.
I'm not blaming my H for this but I love when people say that divorce or separation doesn't hurt children and they are strong enough to get over it. My MIL is one of them. Now look!
Please keep us in your prayers, as I keep everyone on this site in mine. God is probably tired of hearing me, especially this week. Thought I was really losing it, was afraid I was having a breakdown.
