Dude, You have to calm down. You have to let OM go. She already told you she wants to break up with him. And really, now is the not the time for her to do that. You may want her to treat him like he's dog poo, but that's not up to you. You don't get to tell her how and when she'll break up with him...leave her alone and she'll do it.
She may not be having this great amazing romance you imagine. Maybe he just occupies boredom. It's ugly but true, people date some people not for the greatest reasons.
You were more tied up in trying and hoping she wouldn't go to this memorial thing....I have no idea who these people are, but frankly, it sounded sort of fun....who wouldn't want to go? I wanted to go and have ZERO connection to anyone there.
Remember during your last great talk, she told you, she's thinking of how to end it with him....so let her figure it out.
I'm sorry I was MIA this weekend, but really, Gucci is right. Back off some more. Let the kids drive a wedge between them. But I will say you were right about the FB thing but the kids are a tough thing....I and don't know that I would date a guy with kids...it would be hard and for the very reasons Gucci was talking about.
