Well, the girls spent the night with their dad for the first time since he left in June. It was pretty hard on me, but I stayed cool. Made sure to have plans when he picked them up Sat. morning. And went out Sat night. Sunday, I cleaned. Nice to do without little ones around. Noticed that he rushed to drop them off last night (oh, no - two days without OW must have been killing him). At any rate, he didn't seem to care one bit what I did or who I was with... Oh well, then I get a call today at work from H. "Hey, how did the girls do last night?... How are you? How was your weekend". My replies were short and sweet... "Oh, I really missed the girls but I had a good time, went out, cleaned, got stuff done".
@LFA... sorry about your sitch, hang in there. I don't really have too much strength right now (one of the things I did yesterday while the girls were away, was cry....cry hard). Don't give up, "do what you feel is right" is great advice from Burt. This is not a sprint but a marathon and we are barely at mile 2.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
