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Hello my darling Glinda...how is life in the land of OZ?

Just wanted to stop by and say "HI" and let you know I thought your convo w/the massage lady was very cool. Yay for Kat.

Your in my prayers.


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T:22yr
M:15yrs
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3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
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Thanks Corey. Not much going on. The boys are trying to motivate me to get rid of stuff which is great, but they are making more messes than I can contend with at a time!! LOL

Got to love them for trying. Everyone but S16 have allergies going crazy. The moderate temps have allowed everything to grow so much better than normal. So sad that all of this just snuck up on us. Thank goodness for Claritin!

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Ex just called and wanted to let know me some insurance stuff regarding the kids. How can he talk like normal, like the person I used to know?

Well, not mine to understand I suppose. I stay pretty distant and just answer and ask what is neccesary and get it over with. He just wants to add small talk. Whatever. He even offered to split the bill for the kids(which is a big deal) even though really he should be paying 70 to my 30. Not enough to fight over, just go with the flow.

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Are you detached enought to feel like talking to a stranger? I wonder about that often. Last year I could/was actually feeling friendly towards him, like he was "family". Now, with the whats and how and duration of the betrayal exposed I feel him like my enemy...
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Oh my ex is no friend of mine because you certainly don't treat friends the way he did. We were best friends before this. 21 years down the drain but I have learned a lot and have four great kids because of the relationship, so what is one to do? Won't let it eat me up, just make this life wonderful is all I can do.

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Hey Kat,
I imed you on Fb and your...son replied. He said you are at work. I thought I'd tell you in case he shouldnt be in your FB page...
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I probably forgot to log off. They are fine because they kick me off pretty quick if I forget! LOL Thanks. I will be home in a bit but I bet you will be sleeping. I will check.

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Phewww, got worried there for a while.
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I checked on you and it looked as if I just missed you. Darn!! I will try to catch you later on your thread.

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I am here now, but will be walking out my office in a few...
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