Stuck,
I know it doesn't mean physically leaving. What I mean is when we are together in the house, do I just ignore her?
I do realize how codependant I am on her. It's sickening. I am trying to break the dependancy. This facebook thing hurt, but it didn't siderail me. She didn't respond when I told her I missed her one day, again, I didn't really react like I once might have.
I know I should just not let the facebook thing effect me, but it seemed like it came from left field. Everything was status quo and then all of a sudden this happened. That's why I chalked it up to her hormones.
I do have more work to do, I know that. When I am apart from her, it is easier. She texted me about Thursday's schedule for the boys. I answered only with my schedule and nothing else.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.