Lost41,

I am so sorry to hear all of this. My first question is how is your son doing today? Do you know why he tried to take his life? Has he spoken any on it? Is he in counseling to try and help? What kind of lifestyle does he have? Does he go to church? Does he do drugs or drink alcohol or is he clean of those sort of things? Did he give hints in the past before he attempted to take his life? This is all very scary and very sad and I have no doubt very over whelming.

I agree that your sister did not need to be there given the circumstances. However, that does at least show that she has a heart that may be starting to reveal itself for you and your son.

As far as your H goes, I am glad that he came and also called your son to check up on him. I'm not sure why he would assume that he needs to take your daughter away fom you because of issues your son is having and needs help with. How is your daughter doing? Is she handling things ok? Did this incident freak her out? I'm sure it was a bit scary for her to see her brother attempt this.

This is obviously a terrible situation. I pray that God be with you and your family and that he strengthen all of you.

I'm sure your H just probably flipped out over the whole incident and didn't know quite how to handle it.

How is your daily walk with God coming? I know that you need him now more than ever.

I'm sure you were terrified. It is in our weakest moments that God gives us the graces and strength we need to keep going and stand strong on our feet through anything that life throws at us.

You are truly having a lot thrown at you and I pray that a light at the end of the tunnel reveals itself soon to you.

Whatever you do, don't turn away from God. He is the only one that can see you through everything. Pray for mercy and unconditional love.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...