Listen RSF- the esoteric and dreamy stuff comes off as juvenile but looking your W in the eyes and telling her you love her and want to be with her and that you have worked on yourself and you are sorry...all of that is substantial (and the stuff I get none of)...
No woman in her right mind can consider taking an H back because he has a whim, or had a dream, or saw a psychic...way too shallow.
Actually, it was a dream that prompted H to come back last time. No, we've got to grow up here and make choices, real concrete choices backed by actions.
Cuz, you and I know that one can have a multitude of dreams at any given time...so what?
I don't want some random, fell out of the sky drama, I want a man who knows what he wants and knows he wants me.