2nd guessing this to death is not going to change the circumstances...
No, but what I do may change the circumstances. And if not, I've lost nothing.
Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
do you want out or not? What is best for you as you confront the most brutal facts of your current reality?
Interesting you say that. I actually laid out the facts and emailed them to myself with the subject: "The brutal facts of my marriage."
Under the current circumstances, yes, I want out. I might possibly reconsider under certain conditions which I really don't need to think about right now. I'll cross that bridge IF I need to.
I don't see how following gucci's advice is hurting me in the least. It's not stopping me from pursuing my best interests. To the contrary, I find that asking myself WWAWAWD? (what would a walk away wife do) helps me shift to that perspective mentally and emotionally. Even if doing this changes nothing about what he does, it still feels like a graceful and dignified way to exit a relationship.
