I have been here at DB for a long time. Never really thought my sitch would come to this forum, but non the less here I am.
My H actually left our marriage a long long time ago, in fact, it is highly likely he was never in it at all.
The good news is that with the counseling I have had I am finally able to face this fact and begin to do what needs to be done to move on with my life.
Tonight I am meeting with a financial counselor. I am also going through the Divorce Care workshop right now and it is very valuable stuff!
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011