I have been here at DB for a long time. Never really thought my sitch would come to this forum, but non the less here I am.

My H actually left our marriage a long long time ago, in fact, it is highly likely he was never in it at all.

The good news is that with the counseling I have had I am finally able to face this fact and begin to do what needs to be done to move on with my life.

Tonight I am meeting with a financial counselor. I am also going through the Divorce Care workshop right now and it is very valuable stuff!


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011