What to do when H doesn't contact?

[MrBond]

I'm very sorry to hear about your son and hope he is doing well.

Right now your H is suffering from depression so no matter what you do or say isn't going to make any impact on him.

For now, concentrate on your S. He needs you now not your H. You are so busy worrying about your H's reactions, how he feels, his anger, etc. Your S tried to take his own life! Focus on him.

Your H isn't going to get better unless HE decides he wants to get better. With you being there in front of him pursuing, he can blame you for all his anger and hurt.

I pray your S gets better.