Yes it does. I only hope for something like this. All I get right now is indifference. That is the worse thing of all. I'd rather have anger or fights. Anything. The indifference is killing me. She does her thing without discussion. I do my thing, even come home in the middle of the night with no reaction. She is a Vulcan on any given good day, I have seen no emotion from her at all during the Great Sadness. Once in a while her voice will drop very low, and she will say something remotely positive. Thats the only time I get anything out of her. But I very rarely hear that voice. In fact, it has been weeks since I heard it last. Anyway, no contact from me to her today, even though she hasn't contacted me. I am not going to contact her.
Same here. The indifference was killing me. I called her out a little over three weeks ago. It brought out the anger pretty quickly. I'd guess the anger is in there, but she's avoiding it.
We almost never fought before the bomb (we probably should have more often) and haven't fought a lot since considering all that's happened. She can't be happy with herself right now. The more that you give her reason to focus on you, the less she can focus on herself. Once she starts focusing on herself, she probably won't like what she sees. At least I think that's what's happening in my sitch. Yours has seemed very similar since I first read your stuff.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
