do I take the children as much as possible to be a good father and give my children the best possible life given the horrible situation, which will give her an easier path to be with OM.
Who cares about the path to OM? Of course you get your kids as much as possible, 90% of the time if you can get away with it. You are still too busy factoring in your decision based on how it will impact her. Let her walk her own walk and you do what you feel is best for you.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
