Here is my update on my sitch. I'm not good at all. My son tried to take his life on Monday night. I'm such a mess! First my husband screamed and yelled when he got to the hospital and said he was going to have our daughter taken off of me etc. then he left. He returned and appoligized for acting that way. He came to be with me because I was by myself and wouldn't you know my sister that I haven't spoke to in 4 yrs. because she is married and had multiple affairs made a move on my husband. And he told me about it and all hell broke loose between me and her. So her being there I could have screamed! She hasn't bothered with my son in 4yrs. and then has nerve enough to come there without my consent. So when me and my husband were talking outside of the hospital she made sure she stood and sat there and put her 2 cents in whenever she could. When my husband said to me you don't get depressed all of a sudden out of no where claiming he has had it now for 5 yrs. He was blaming the marriage and she comes off with that is what is causing her depression (her marriage). Way to go sis!!!! I should have told her to just leave but I was so worried about my son I couldn't think straight! Then I got up and went into the hospital waiting room and left them outside, she came in 5 min. later and then said to me, maybe you should go outside with your husband because maybe he wants to talk. So I go out and have a cig. and he says nothing the whole time so when I was finished I went back inside and he sat there outside for a good hour then got up and left. He called the following day blocking his number and asked if my son was returning to school and I said yeah Y? And he said because he had insurance forms and signed them and was sending them to me to fill out and I just said ok. Then he said he called my son and I asked if he sounded ok and he said yes and I haven't heard a word since, and never got the insurance form. In the mean time I sent a letter to him on Monday before all of this happened letting him know how the door is open if or when he ever wants to return and asked him to forgive me for all of the awful things I said to him out of anger because of the lies he was telling people over the separation. Not knowing this was going to happen to my son, and told him that we all miss and love him. No begging or pleading and then this! My son was released on Friday and keeps asking about my husband but he has made no attempt to contact him again or our daughter.
Ms. Jen,
My H was already on meds and stopped taking them and that's where this all started. I already made the mistake of telling him he needs them again in the beginning of our separation back in Nov.
