I have 46 days to go till Retro, and my W is pulling away as well. All that matters right now is that she goes to Retro. I'll take my chances once we're there. If she decides not to go, then I'll know our fate. The same goes for your situation. Hang in there.
Thanks, LFh
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009