Orich, Take the focus off your wife. You are responsible for your own happiness. You are walking on eggshells and it is giving off a terrible vibe. Go back and read your posts here and to others lately like a third party and give yourself some honest feedback. Start handling it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
