Newbie (again)

[Dia]

Ugh, Dday - sorry to hear all of that. The big diff for me and my H is that we were never, ever nasty to each other. Yes, now I'm the LBS, and yes, sometime I wonder if he's doing some of his withholding and a few other little things to 'punish' me, get revenge or if he's doing them just because it's something that I did.

Example: When I was feeling all lost and the pain of the R was so bad that I wasn't sure if I loved him, he would say "I love you" clearly wanting to hear it back. I would say "Thank you" instead, but say it sincerely.

I have said ILY once to him in the past few weeks. Wanna guess what he said?

Thank you.