Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Hi Dia, thanks for stopping by.

Reading your story certainly gave me hope, and also brought me to a realization: the tables have turned and now XW finds herself the LBS, me the WAS.

My XW has done pretty horrific things to me during the course of the D. And yes, I would have taken her back, even post D. (in conversation even my kids knew that)

But, now? Well an update.

First and foremost, upon picking the kids Friday, I had opened the rear hatch of truck and noticed XW had stepped up behind me, I turned to give her "her" check and she looked like a PO'd stadium bull flaring at the nostrels. Never said one word to each other and that was the only time I looked at her for the whole 2 minutes she was there before storming off to the backyard.

Later on after dinner, THE UNFORGIVABLE. Myself, cousin and S11 set up a firepit and were roasting marshmellows. S12 wasn't to up on the idea an dI was curios. We started to talk about going to the zoo the next day and I said S12 was hairy like a monkey, they may try to keep him. S11 says, "we'll isn't he hairy because his REAL DAD is Italian?".

[insert image of nuclear warhead detonating]

Apparently, XW and OM are on the 'call OM dad' kick again. S11 put him in check and told him that he already has a dad. S12 however they are coaxing that since he "already has 2 dads, why not a third?".

She is absolutley right, we can not be friends.

Further more S11 said he "does not want to move downstate next year". I said he won't unless it's over my dead lifeless body, I have every say so in where they go, where they live and where they go to school. And if that's the plan, we will be back in court to get it straight. He said he already knew we are going back to court, "Mom's been planning it for a while".

There are quite a few things that flew around, but this is most prevelant.

Thus, that was 'probably' the last nail in the coffen. Dia, I'm not going to sit here and say that I would never take her back, but, a transformation has been officially made and I am no longer a LBS..........

XW is.