Good news, thinker, I am glad for you. You seem to be in a pretty good spot.
Things have deteriorated for me. W has removed me and my family from her facebook friends list. We don't talk. We avoid each other in the house.
When she finally agreed to go to Retro a couple of weeks ago, she said to book the weekend, that she wouldn't change her mind. Right now I fear that is the only reason why she is going now, because she said she wouldn't back out.
I am more afraid than ever. She appears to be slowly letting go. I can only hope for a small miracle at retro. Your W is at least hoping for something. Mine seems to be just going because she said she would.
Maybe it is enough. I don't know.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.