Hi Bill,
I have caught up on your thread & am so sorry. My H is pushing too, after not hearing from him for a week but he's been talking to L and is starting again. I am sure living together is so extremely difficult, but in my case H & I are like strangers. There is no pretense of being married even. It's chilling. I can see from your posts that living with WAS is no picnic either. I can only imagine how hard it must be with kids, and my heart goes out to you & them to have to go through this. But for me, I sort of feel like without kids there is little to keep us connected. Anyway just wanted to check in & wishing you the best in your mediation appt. Sounds like you are doing everything right, all that you can, and getting really clear on what you need to do. Very strong, bravo! Please take care & sending positive thoughts your way,
LFA