Hi H, Just checking in & hope you are feeling better today. Sounds like a rough weekend. I am sorry for your pain. I wish I could be more helpful but reading the replies here I think you are getting top notch advice. I am learning from them as well. Please hang in, as I am telling myself the same thing. It's just so hard to get your mind around it, I can't believe I've been separated now for 5 mos.
Originally Posted By: RedSoxFan
[quote=hhh]Thanks so much RSF for your/male perspective. I try to see his side and the 'fog' he is in. He feels very entitled right now. Did you ever push for/bring up D with your wife? The weird thing is H has just walked out but does not seem like he's pursuing D...it's like he may be waiting for me to or something, I have no idea.
I am no expert but this seems to be a positive sign for your M, as at the very least he is not pressing a D. Small comfort I know! I have the opposite problem - H is acting very sure & push push pushing to move on it now. It certainly is true we can't control what WAS does. I too am trying to figure out my boundaries right now. My DB coach asked, if you knew he was having an A, would that change your DB goals? I always thought that would be the end, but I really had to think about it. It makes you crazy! Anyway I am grateful for this board & you & all the other helpful supportive folks on it. Your weekend plans sound fun, please enjoy! You totally deserve it, and to be treated with respect and dignity. Wishing you peace, LFA
