It is actions, not words, you don't have to back pedal, you just back off. IMO.
I think I am backed off. I didn't even go inside when I stopped the kids off yesterday. She texted me last night checking on the dog. I politely replied and no more. I will see her some this week as I go over for various appointments and activities for the kids.
I picked up an outfit for her last week, guess I had better stop that for good.
She asked if I could help with some joint financial things that she was handling because she couldn't handle the pressure of it and I agreed to take it over. Guess that's fine.
I'm taking kids for a family trip this weekend so she'll have a glorious long weekend with OM. At least I get to have a great weekend with my angels
Last edited by RedSoxFan; 08/31/0904:30 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09