Originally Posted By: RedSoxFan
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
Leave her alone. Let her make her own decisions regarding the kids being around the OM or not.

Why? I told you before.. The MORE the kids are around while your wife and the OM are in the beginning of a relationship the BIGGER advantage YOU have.


OK. I get what you are saying. But not sure how I can back pedal now that I've been firm about what needs to happen with the kids.


It is actions, not words, you don't have to back pedal, you just back off. IMO.

Last edited by aliveandkicking; 08/31/09 04:24 PM.