Leave her alone. Let her make her own decisions regarding the kids being around the OM or not.
Why? I told you before.. The MORE the kids are around while your wife and the OM are in the beginning of a relationship the BIGGER advantage YOU have.
OK. I get what you are saying. But not sure how I can back pedal now that I've been firm about what needs to happen with the kids.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
