while I believe abortion should be safe and legal (even though I have a strong religious and personal objection to it), I could NEVER be with a man who asked another woman to kill her unborn child just because it was inconvenient for him. His kids are his first priority? His first priority is (and probably always will be) him-- he has been unbelievably cruel to EVERYONE involved.
I am sorry, but I am just so angry with him right now. Unlike him, you chose to do what was right and decent (respecting your marriage vows), even though you had the chance to be with another, WONDERFUL man. And he put you through utter hell for a woman who means nothing (he says). Puke.
BTW, you are not making "accusations" against him, just speaking the truth (now established beyond a shadow of a doubt-- he acts like they are unfounded allegations! Please).