You both are so right, take care of me first, make myself whole I know there is nothing I can do to help bring H back whatever happens he does need to do on his own.
I will GAL this week and not include H in activities, I knew this was wrong but could not stop myself.
Will get back on track thanks for the feedback.
Michele
M 42 H 41 M 16 yrs. Together 22 yrs. No kids Bomb 5/16/09 D papers in home unsigned