BDG, To deal with the pain know that it won't last. Stay busy to keep your hands and mind active. You aren't alone on your journey but it is your responsibility to take care of yourself.
This needs to be addressed because that is not the way to handle it.
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I'm trying to be the "good guy" and be my wife's friend. I'm trying to be "understanding" and give her the space and time she needs. It's hard but I believe it's the only way I'm ever going to win her back.
Being a "Nice Guy" isn't healthy. Being a man is the cure. Sometimes being a friend means you take a stand, set boundaries and practice tough love.
Deal with the bomb you got dropped on you. Do not contact your wife while you are raw about this.
You can handle it.
Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
