MotoB,

I hope you're ok - I know it's a tough time, but hang in there. I have read these words from other posters in the past, and it was tough - real tough - but in the end they were all correct. Things will get better. Some things take time. Maybe you're trying to sort your life out right now; maybe you aren't even sure where everything is going, but hang in there!! Just get through today, worry about tomorrow tomorrow. Try not to read too much into things - you can only control yourself, and your reactions, so be cool, take a deep breath, and don't panic.

I know, I know, easy to say... We've all been where you are.

Drop us a line, let us know what's up.


Me: 46
W: 46
M: 9.5 yrs
D4, D9
D filed by her 11/3/08
Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09
Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09
W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09
3rd Bomb 9/2/09