Do you want him to chase you, as the unattainable WAW, or for choosing to be in an intimate relationship with his best friend?
I would think, until he understands what it takes to be in an intimate relationship with you & deal with his issues of control and empathy,... even he does drop this OW & pursue you, as the unattainable WAW... what do you have once you let him 'catch' you?? The same old, same old.
I agree with Cookie.. you deserve better than his scraps of attention he gives when his ego is inflated by pursuing/capturing the "unattainable".
((dudess))
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.