Who knows what is going through his mind, but I imagine it will get worse before it gets better.
When STBXH called yesterday on the landline, I was on the cell with Mr. A. I told him I had to go and answer the other line. I guess he must have noticed by the inflection in my voice that it was someone I did not care to talk to. He later texted me and asked me if I was okay. I told him that at the moment I was not and would talk to him later. He told me to call him if I wanted to talk.
I did talk to him later. He told me he was willing to listen if I wanted to talk, but if I didn't want to, that was okay. I summarized the situation, he was very understanding. He thought it was ridiculous about how STBXH was acting. He pretty much let me know that this wasn't going to scare him off. By the end of the call he had me laughing.
Odd thing is when I was talking to STBXH, he was talking about specific time lengths of the calls with my "boyfriend's" number. Unbelieveable....
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon