Your WAW is starting to feel a little more comfortable around you. Which is good. She might even be starting to TRUST that you are NOT going to DISRESPECT her boundaries again and BE "SAME OLD KEVIN".... This will take time though. Just keep on being NICE BUT whenever your BOUNDARIES are challenged it is CRITICAL that you RESPECTFULLY stand by them. She will eventually RESPECT your BOUNDARIES but based on your PAST habits it will take time. RESPECT this time and HER SPACE and you might, might, might, have a chance. Regardless, of her though these changes NEED to be FOR YOU. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT.... If they are for her then they will just lead to EXPECTATIONS and RESENTMENT and Kevin repeating Kevins Cycle. Break the CYLCE Kevin. Keep on going to your meetings. Keep on bringing the girls to their meetings. DONT LET KEVIN DECIDE IF HE NEEDS THESE MEETINGS. KEVIN has NOT proven that he is CAPABLE of these choices yet. LET KEVIN PROVE THIS OVER TIME.
