What would you two be doing?

Where would you be?

What time of day is she more talkative?

Are you eating, working, playing .....?

Visualise what would be good for her.

To be effective you want to be able to look her in the eye.

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.