Originally Posted By: happycamper

I appear to have lost my identity and was wondering how I start to become a person in my own right? Also is there a way to make oneself feel better without resorting to dating?

Thanks for listening...

HC
Good on the ending the unhealthy R. I think that's one of the hardest things to do, but really good to do.

I think for dating to work out well, maybe you have to feel better and happy first, and then date. I think GALing is as helpful for us as the newcomers. Getting support from family or friends. Trying new activities and experiences. I'm spending a little time by myself (when kids are with their dad) and that's a new and good experience too. Maybe IC if you feel you need that.

Karen


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