Seems to me like you have applied the "no R" talk with 100% consistency. Why not just ask "so what are we doing here?" This DB stuff is all good, but the "rules" are not hard and fast. Heck, they are mostly a bunch of stuff to basically help get you ready to be divorced, not actually save your M. Just ask her what is going on. The worse that can happen is what, she says I don't know? She says something that hurts? I don't think probing is going to do much harm right now.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
