I hate to say it, but Mike and Chris are totally right. My xh's family is still cordial toward me, they agree that he is crazy and stupid, but blood still wins out in the end.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!