I thought I would have an ally in stbx's mother and stateside surrogate mother.

stbx's mother's philosphy is that he can do anything he wants, as long as he is happy.

The surrogate mom did rip him a new a-hole,but also promptly cut me out of her life about six months later with no explanation.

Stick to your family and friends. Ultimately his may not agree with is actions, but they are still HIS family.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..